How Did I Get Here?

A flashback for Friday. This was one of my most popular posts in 2015. It was part one of a series I wrote called Diary of a New Writer. So in case you missed it…

(The caption on my coffee cup is Irish Gaelic and translates: “The traveler has tales to tell.”)

My dad was a story-teller. It’s only now, looking back, that I appreciate what a vivid imagination he had. He made up a whole series of adventures involving our neighbor’s cat: Mopsy, and another one with a little old man and a cuckoo clock that always saved the day. Anyway, I come by my love of stories and books, naturally.

I loved taking notes in school and writing letters to my friends who moved to Florida when I was a little girl. I kept a diary from the time I was eight years old right up to about age fourteen. I still have some of the notebooks I filled with poetry when I was a teenager. I excelled in English, ignored it to the detriment of my other subjects, yet was never encouraged to pursue it as a career. Cést la vie.

I went to college, majored in marketing, learned to write ad copy and design polls and surveys. Graduated in a time of recession and couldn’t get a job. I was Winona Ryder in “Reality Bites,” in other words, floundering.

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I even ended up working at the Gap! (Sharp intake of breath. I heard you.) That job is what ultimately led me to pursue a career change. At twenty-one, I found myself with such back pain, I could barely walk. Long story short, chiropractic saved the day and I found my new calling. I went back to school, moved to a new area, started working in my field, etc. Suddenly, I realized it had been years since I thought about writing.

One day, I guess about two years ago, I was sitting in the stylist’s chair at the hair salon, touching up the blonde and reading my book to pass the time. My stylist said to me, “You’re always reading. Did you ever want to write a book yourself?” “Sure,” I laughed. “Doesn’t every reader want to be a writer?” “You should do it,” she said. “Hmm,” I thought. “But what am I going to write about?”

… And after that I bought myself a notebook and starting jotting down ideas. The rest, as they say, is history!

A Break in Breaking Bread

I have caught up my novel excerpts to the point I am in the story. As November wound down, so did my momentum! As I am suffering with a cold and am preparing to travel this weekend –we’re off to Pittsburgh to see the Steelers play the Ravens in a crucial game on Christmas day– the story must take a brief hiatus as well. I will resume next week, with renewed zeal, hopefully…

Over the next few days, I will revisit some of the older posts that many of you haven’t seen – some of my early favorites, both poetry and short stories. I hope you’ll enjoy.

Anyway, everyone have a wonderful weekend, whatever your plans may be. Be safe, enjoy your friends and families, relax and have fun! And while I have this chance, let me express to you how much I appreciate your friendship, your comments and all your support. All my best wishes to you and yours!

Love, Meg

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Paint Me a Word Picture

“Any fool can pick a rose and pluck its petals, but the man of genius breathes its scent and paints its forms: that is the kind of author we will read.” – Essay on Novels; The Marquis de Sade

That is such a lovely quote, I had trouble figuring out how to follow it up!

Unless you are a technical writer, compiling how-to manuals for ‘some assembly required’ projects or writing textbooks for engineers… writing and composing involves much more than just listing facts on a page. Writing is an art form.

Storytellers don’t just recount events in the order in which they happened. No. We attempt to paint pictures with words. To set the scene, we hope to make the reader feel the cold wind blowing off the North Sea or the scorching heat of the desert sun. We use beautiful language to describe the tastes of the food or the taste of a lover’s kiss. Can you smell the smoke from the burning village or of sound of screaming and the clash of swords? Feel the textures of skin against skin in a gentle caress or in a bare knuckle brawl?

Anthropologically, storytelling in the form of song or saga has been used to help the balladeer or the skald keep the oral history of a people alive. It is some of the earliest writing ever discovered. The Epic of Gilgamesh, for example, dates back to 2000 BCE. Another Sumerian text, The Tale of the Shipwrecked Sailor, may be even older than that. Can you imagine the story surviving if the tale was dull and lacking life? Or if it were just a chronological list of situations and incidents?

Fiction writing is not a roll call.

As writers, we have stories within us just begging to be told. Perhaps they are based on an interesting life full of adventures  or one filled with anguish and tragedy. The Marquis de Sade, for example, was imprisoned for most of his life. (See Citizen Sade by Mr. Cake of cakeordeathsite) His uncontrollable nature led him to behave in a most outrageous way. However, despite the unavoidable outcome, he believed that his desires should not be suppressed, for to do so would go against that very nature. Inevitably, it got him in a lot of trouble. Yet, there is more to the man than his bad reputation. (See Yet Another Effort also by Mr. Cake -he is writing a series of posts on the Marquis)

Alternatively, maybe we are keen observers, listeners -able to conjure a story by watching a couple argue at a restaurant or seeing a child apart from all the other children playing on the playground. We ask why or what happens next? All the joy and pain, the desperate hopes, the unbreakable spirit, the crushed dreams and lost loves pour onto the page. Those strong emotions, however, produce the most powerful writing. Writing that has life…

That is the reward of writing – touching the heart and mind of the reader- to entertain at a minimum, but even better, to stimulate the mind, to stir the emotions, captivate the spirit, shake it to the core. It’s a heady thing– moving a soul. Choose carefully, the words you’re about to commit to paper. Craft them with skill, arrange them just so. Speak them aloud to see how they roll off the tongue. Inhale the scent of the rose and paint its forms.

Header Image: Still Life With Roses – Pierre-Auguste Renoir