All my creative pursuits.
My buddy, and super talented photographer, Beach (sonofabeach96) has tagged me for this intriguing challenge: “Seven days. Seven black and white photos of your life. No people. No explanation. Challenge someone new each day.” If you don’t already follow his amazing photography blog, please do. He should get paid for it. Calling Conde Nast! As for the rules, well… I’m not going to nominate anyone, but if you’d like to jump into this challenge, consider yourself nominated!
Here is the second:
It has been a tumultuous couple of months. Despite some upsets, much good has come of them. Taking a break from blogging made me realize how much effort and time I had been devoting to thinking up new material to post about. I have been distracted from my primary goal: writing and publishing novels.
In redirecting my efforts, I realized I almost need to start over in this process. Four of my novels in The Bucks County Series are published on Amazon. The fifth is in the hands of my beta readers —that one can sit on the back burner for the time being. So far self publishing has proven to be less than successful. Why? Because all the marketing and promotion fall back on the author. I have neither the time or the stomach for it.
And that is how I fell into the trap of blogging on nearly a daily basis. I love writing —that is what I want to do. I was telling myself that a popular blog would help me to promote my books. That hasn’t happened. Granted, I’m also not hitting the reader in the face with book promotion every time I write a post. That’s how timid I am about marketing. What I need is someone to do the marketing for me.
Back in early 2015, when I finished my first novel, I tried finding an agent but my fragile ego couldn’t take rejection. After only six tries, I gave up and self published through Amazon. That is not how it works. Many popular and successful authors have been rejected numerous times —sometimes for years before an agent finally agrees to represent them to a publisher. I need to brace myself for this possibility and not let it derail my process.
I also realized that my self published novels need to be the very best they can be. If an agent is even remotely interested in your query and the first five pages you send along with it, they are going to look for you in the cyber world. They will find your Facebook Author Page, Twitter, Tumblr, Google+, LinkdIn, and WordPress blog. They will find your Amazon and Goodreads Author Pages. They will see that I have four self published novels. These need to be ready for view —even a brief one.
With that in mind, I have revisited my first novel: Three Empty Frames. 
In three years since I wrote the first draft of this book, I have learned so much. Fortunately, I feel like the story is strong and it’s just the writing that needs polish. And that is what I have been doing the last couple of months —putting my efforts into making Three Empty Frames ready for an agent. And while I do, I am educating myself on the query process, taking webinars on finding an agent and reading everything I can about how to do this successfully. Hopefully I won’t have to wait years for someone to take a chance.
Writing is therapy.
How much of yourself do you pour into your writing? The answer may vary dramatically depending on the type of writing you do. No one bares their soul in a technical manual. But fiction writers, poets, lyricists… all inject their own joy and pain, fear and desire into their work. The question is: what do we risk in exposing ourselves to the world? How much do we give? Sharing the very essence of yourself is either crazy or incredibly brave.
Part of it is about trust. Do you trust yourself to convey those thoughts and feelings accurately? Do you trust your readers to understand, to relate? Because that’s kind of the point. We are sharing. We want it to reach someone, to entertain at a minimum, or to move the heart, stir the spirit. This very notion gives your writing weight. It’s a heady thing– moving a soul. Choose carefully, the words you’re about to commit to paper. Craft them with skill, arrange them just so. Speak them aloud to see how they roll off the tongue.
Another part of it is honesty. Do you share the difficult stuff, too? The things that might make your readers cringe? Exposing your fears, flaws, failures, and mistakes opens you up to criticism, rebuke and rejection. And yet that cleansing, that catharsis may be just the thing you need to put out there. Risk or not.
Consider your audience. Who is reading your work? Maybe you’re anonymous here on your blog. That certainly gives you a lot of freedom to post at will. For those of us blogging with full disclosure? Not so much! So what do you do if there’s something just eating away at you?
Some stories just beg to be told. I’ve had an interesting life full of adventures and catastrophes, joys and pain. The painful parts are the hardest to tell but they are also the stories that burn inside. That doesn’t mean I have to write a memoir. But I can tell a story. Wrap a memory in the cloak of fiction and pen the narrative as if it happened to somebody else. All the desperate hopes, crushed dreams and lost loves pour onto the page.
If you look hard enough, my writing empties my veins. More of it flows out every day. If you are able to separate the drops of fact from the volume of fiction, you will see the essence of me. Go ahead and look. I’ll leave you to decide which is which!
What do you say, writers? Do you pour yourself out onto the page?
Meg Sorick, Author/Artist 